Real change happens one conversation, one step at a time.
The Coaching Journey is a structured, sustained engagement for parents, couples, and professionals who are ready to do the real work, not just talk about it.
Most coaches tell you what to do. Sir John helps you understand why you haven't.
There is no shortage of advice in the world. Books, podcasts, courses, everyone has a framework for the life you should be living. And yet most people stay stuck.
Sir John's coaching starts from a different place. Before we talk about what you should do, we sit with the harder question, why you haven't done it yet, and what is actually in the way. That is where real change begins.
This is not motivational coaching. It is honest, structured, sometimes uncomfortable work, held with warmth, drawn from 30 years of sitting with real people through real challenges.
Why people come to coaching.
Most people arrive at coaching not because something catastrophic has happened, but because something quieter is wrong. They are functioning, even succeeding on the outside, but inside they know they are not living at the level they are capable of. Something is stuck. Something important is not working. And they have run out of ways to fix it on their own.
Coaching is for you if
- ✓You feel stuck and cannot see clearly why
- ✓Your marriage or relationships are under real strain
- ✓You are a parent who wants to do better, not just try harder
- ✓You know what you should do but keep not doing it
- ✓You are at a crossroads in your career or sense of purpose
- ✓You are willing to be honest, even when it is uncomfortable
- ✓You want change that holds, not a temporary lift
Coaching is not for you if
- ✕You are looking for someone to validate what you already want to do
- ✕You want quick fixes or motivational hype
- ✕You are not willing to be challenged on your own patterns
- ✕You expect the coach to do the work for you
- ✕You need clinical therapy for a diagnosed mental health condition
- ✕You are not ready to be fully honest with yourself
- ✕You want someone to take sides in your conflict
How the journey works.
A structured engagement of 6 to 10 sessions, designed to produce change that holds. Every journey is different, but the shape is consistent.
Full Assessment
Session one is dedicated entirely to understanding where you are, your history, your patterns, what brought you here, and what you actually want. No assumptions. No templates.
Goal Setting
Together you define clear, honest goals for the journey. Not vague aspirations, specific outcomes you can recognise when you reach them.
Progressive Work
Over 6 to 10 sessions, you do the sustained, focused work. Each session builds on the last. Sir John walks alongside you, challenging, supporting, and holding you accountable.
Lasting Change
The goal is never a motivational high that fades. It is a real shift that stays shifted, change you carry into your home, your work, and your relationships long after the journey ends.
What you can work on.
The Coaching Journey adapts to where you are. These are the areas Sir John works in most often, but the starting point is always you.
Parenting
For parents navigating the hardest and most important work of their lives, from early childhood to the teenage years and beyond.
Marriage & Relationships
For couples who want to do the work before the cracks become canyons, communication, conflict, intimacy, and rebuilding trust.
Purpose & Direction
For professionals and individuals who feel the gap between where they are and where they know they should be, and are ready to close it.
Career & Performance
For those navigating transitions, leadership challenges, or the pressure to perform without losing themselves in the process.
Personal Finances
For anyone ready to build a healthier, freer relationship with money, grounded in discipline, not anxiety.
Healing & Growth
For those carrying something heavy who need a safe, structured space to set it down and move forward.
Choose where to begin.
Every engagement starts with where you are. The single session is a clear, focused starting point. The Coaching Journey is for those who are ready to do sustained work. The Parenting Programme is built for families who want to go deep.
The Single Session
- +One 60-minute one-on-one session
- +Any area: parenting, marriage, career, purpose, or finances
- +Opens with a focused assessment
- +Closes with clear, practical next steps
- +In person in Nairobi or via Zoom
- +Assessment fee waived on package sign-up
The Coaching Journey
6-session commitment
KES 30,000 for 10 sessions
- +6 to 10 one-on-one sessions, 60 minutes each
- +Session 1: full personal assessment
- +Sessions 2 onwards: focused, progressive work toward your goals
- +Parenting, marriage, purpose, career, or a combination
- +Weekly or fortnightly pacing to fit your schedule
- +In person in Nairobi or remotely for diaspora clients
The Parenting Programme
Full 11-week programme (individuals)
KES 3,000 per session · Organisations on request
- +11 weekly group sessions, 2 hours each
- +Structured curriculum from connection to legacy
- +Based on The 4Ps of Parenting and the 5th P — book included at no extra cost
- +Attend as a couple or as an individual parent
- +Co-facilitated with Stacy Mbindyo
- +Free for Nairobi Chapel members each season
- +Can also be delivered as a private one-on-one programme
Diaspora clients are welcome and sessions are conducted online. Pricing is in Kenyan Shillings and represents exceptional value relative to equivalent coaching in Western markets. All sessions are strictly one-on-one.
The Parenting Programme
An 11-week structured journey co-facilitated with Stacy, built on The 4Ps of Parenting. It is the culmination of 16 years and more than 1,600 families walked through the hardest, most important work they will ever do.
The programme is designed for organisations, schools, and churches who want to invest in the families within their community, not with a single talk, but with sustained, structured support that produces lasting change in the home.
"A weight has been lifted off my shoulders."
James, Coaching Client
That is the goal of every coaching journey. Not a temporary lift, but a genuine release, the kind that changes how you move through your days long after the work is done.
When you are ready, so is he.
The Coaching Journey is taken on selectively, to ensure every client receives Sir John's full attention. If you are ready to begin, the first step is a conversation.